Let's all try to remember that we are talking of "things". We were all born naked and broke and we will die that way. I used to be one of those big money making, large home, cars up the arse, individuals until my father died. He used to call me and ask me to breakfast, but I was TOO BUSY making all the money needed to maintain my stuff, and acquire more stuff.
I missed out on valuable time with my dad because I opted to negate human interaction to slave to my things. I WILL NOT ever reduce myself to that degree of individual. Hey, if you are one that does, that is okay. We all have inalienable rights to do, and be, what we want.
I personally, feel that it is how I interact with people and the relationships that are built through openminded, respectful communication that mean the most, and will determine the quality of the life I live.
When I die, I hardly think any of the people I have developed relationships with will say at my Euology "She drove a lame V-6 want to be Mustang." Or "She drove a pristine 05 AMG C55.".... Wouldn't matter. I want to hear "She was an honest and helpful lady.", "She loved her family and friends".... Definately NOT "She LOVED HER CAR."....
Age has very little to do with our maturity level and sometimes people just do not know well enough to put into scope the generalized comments that they make. Some of us have to go through life altering illness or the loss of a loved one to come to reality.
In all interactions we should try to consider the end result. I do not feel any frustration or anger towards Noylaw, he stated his opinion, I responded. Sawman70..You and I have had a couple interactions that just send me off the thread. Like, ExCon, you are a closed minded, opinionated individual, who I try not to waste my breath on. Choose better battles, hunger, aids, the treatment of the elderly, prescritpion drug coverage for all, something worthwhile, because, like I said earlier..It's a Car. Do I care? Yes, I care to try to open people's minds to think before they type (speak) and consider all people's opinions. Even if you cannot understand it, we all have the right to have them. I, respectfully, agree to disagree with you on nearly everything you say.
Jennifer