I'm org from Lancaster, CA. Lived in spanaway for 10yrs, moved to diego 6 months, then moved out to south graham - bit more country. I hated diego... all that cocky attitude, fake flash, people disrespecting you and wanting to test you in front of your girl. Plus she got tired of people harassing her/hitting on her even while doing something as simple as getting gas, driving on the fwy, and even at work. It got pretty bad! There was a time or two I wish I could have pulled out my p99, but that's just wishful thinking. That being said we moved back up to tacoma where people don't care what you do for a living, have respect, and are proud to be blue collar. Drive 15min in either direction and you can still find farms, cowgirls, great views of snowcapped mtns ranges, great fishing, snowboarding, hunting, etc. I'd like to think we're a bit more country, much more laid back, and def more respectful. Some may disagree but that's just my opinion. The military base does have a major influence in tacoma. People here support the troops, have immediate family members deployed, and unfortunetly even know a few good people killed in iraq. So if you don't support'em you're prob better off staying in cali. As for dtn tacoma about 1/4 of it is owned by UW. They have plans on turning UW Tacoma into a 4yr campus with dorms. The city is revitalizing the dtn area and have built a new convention center. I only know this because I'm finishing grad school there. The prices of homes aren't so bad, in diego i was looking at $250k for a 2br condo. If you head just outside of tacoma (puyallup, bethel, graham, etc) you can find a nice 4br home 1/4 acre. The closer to seattle you get the more expensive. If you decide to head up here fyi head over to the south hill mall/puyallup on fridays nights . That's the local mustang spot