Venting good for the soul

...Not so good for the ears...but here it goes and feel free to comment its just been one of those days where you come back to the house and attack the punching bag for a good half hour.


It was said in the movie "Jarhead" that no matter what a marine does with his hands after holding and shooting the rifle, his hands cannot and do not forget the rifle. Its almost funny that I as POG as possibly could be may never quite understand "knowing the rifle" but I've gotten pretty familiar with a sense of death that I don't think anyone whos never actually been there could understand. Let me take you on a short walk of something I go through on a weekly basis, So maybe I won't be asked " how can I do that?" or How I can say that detest people to no end, but rather be understood of just how hard the task is.

Everyday you see 3-7 animals come in to a facility, some have known owners, others have signs of being owned but are not registered, others still will be marked as Stray animals, lost and meandering about. These dogs and cats mostly (although to every rule there is an exception) Will then be placed in your care for medical treatment if needed and general care until claimed, adopted out or their time runs out and they are sent to much bigger better place you and I can only dream about. Some you'll spend so much time with or will have stories that will break your heart in two in an instant. Others may cower, hide or act aggressive in the kennel giving the wrong impression of their demeanor.

Today 11 cats (including 5 kittens that were born at the facility to stray mama cats) were put down not because of disease or temperment but rather because people just didn't seem to want them after so many days at the facility. That doesn't even begin to cover the 2 dogs, one who actually came in wearing a new collar and attached leash and a tag on the collar that said SARA. Somebody cared enough to groom her buy her a new collar and leash, only to turn around and leave her sit and wait, hoping that her family would come for her. I wish people could see a dog wait faithfully knowing in their minds that oh they'll come for me. they bought me a collar and took care of me they will find me and take me home to play ball and life will be good again.

I lose any composure to fight back tears when I have to go down that walk. Every single time, every single animal. They happen to be the most pure of heart and innocent, matched only by children. And a lot of it comes down to either people who don't realize a pet is for life not just a duty station or who just don't care. Sure we adopt a lot. But our numbers about 50/50 between adopting to a new family or being euthanized due to time. Sometimes we can save 1 or 2, usually by dragging in as many resources as possible, especially for the ones who's story is more detailed then a name on a collar.

All of them have a story. Some will literally reach for your heart and yank so hard it hurts to the core.

"Tonka" is a 2year old Akita male who is still very playful puppy mindset who bit a child( based on temperment it was probably while Playing). While he sits in Quarantine waiting to be released because his previous owner was stupid and did not register or even bother to have him vaccinated, you can see the look of " I'm so sorry i didn't mean to hurt the baby, please let me out of doggy jail so i can lick you and shake paw with you. I promise I'll be good." He can't help how excitable and playful he is, so now he sits waiting to be released, while his owner takes a stance of "oh its my wife's dog so i don't want him anymore let me sign him over to be your problem instead of mine."
"tonka" will be adopted by an MP at the end of his quarantine to go live off post.

"Chicken" now named "Hugo" was a purebred Red Min Pin, with an undocked tail and droopy ears. He had been picked up away from bad owner after bad owner. He waited patiently at the kennels for somebody to love the overexuberent good tempermented other then those of us who loved him becasue we knew he desperately needed it. His time came for that walk and I couldn't do it. Not after rescuing him from 2 different bad owners and playing with him in between clients. I found a family, good friends of mine, Newlyweds and a 5 Month old. They had been asking if i had a few good dogs for them to look at. I brought them to meet "Chicken" and it took about 2 minutes before they agreed to adopt him. His name changed to Hugo and he's been making leaps and bounds in the Housetraining department.

There's so many times "I can't save them all" to quote the other tech that had to go down there with me today, but the few i do save makes a difference. it's not big enough, but it's changed a few people's lives already. if you don't have a dog or cat at home and you can afford a best friend for the rest of their life, please go look in some of the shelters in your area. If you've already got more then enough pets, take some time and maybe drop off blakets, food, toys, at the shelters some time, who knows you might another addition to your family while your there/ But please please love your animals and show it. Don't let them go missing and just not care. Their waiting faithfully for you to come find them because they are completely lost without you, Afraid to leave in case you come back for them, scared because they don't know where you are, and are really like children. You wouldn't leave an infant out in the rain would you?

Sorry to vent guys, but I really needed to get that off my chest.

Trish
 
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Thats powerful stuff their.... I am also an animal lover, I cannot stand animal abuse or neglect. All Of my Dogs/ cats have been from the pound. I just lost my dog of 14yrs. He was a Gordon Setter and my best friend. He was one of the best dogs I have ever had. All my kids have climbed on him and he took it like a champ. I couldn't do your job... I would probably end up in jail from giving someone a severe ass beating. But with that being said, the next Boxer I see down there, he is mine! ;)
 
D@mn, Trish, that's rougher than the story of Goldi (B374). :( Iknow it hurts, Baby; but at least they have you for the end. I'm proud of you for standing up to it.

BLK91LX1uponu said:
Thats powerful stuff their.... I am also an animal lover, I cannot stand animal abuse or neglect. All Of my Dogs/ cats have been from the pound.......I couldn't do your job... I would probably end up in jail from giving someone a severe ass beating.

91LX: 2/3's of our dogs and cats are from the pound; so Cowgirl Tink has been part of saving more than just the dog's she cares for in the line of duty. To say nothing of Chance, the once-900-lb-now-1300-lb 26 year old former racehorse she personally rescued from a trip to the slaughterhouse. I can't go around the pound anymore.... makes me want to hunt down (poor but probably apt choice of terms) the animals' former owners.

Everybody; when you're thinking about getting a cute little puppy or kitten for your kids/girlfriend/self, please remember that you're looking at a long commitment - a lifetime commitment for your pet. My last dog (a Queensland-beagle-pit bull cross) that I got before I met Mrs StangDreamin' and 5-2/3 years before Tink was born. We had to put him down because his back was giving out and his kidneys were failing when she was almost 9. He was replaced by a 6 month old Chow mix (a pound puppy) that is now 12+. Her eyes and ears are failing and she' getting prety arthritic; but she still parks herself next to Matt (my son), wanting to love and protect him.

If you're ready for that kind of commitment, don't go to some pet shop or puppy-mill; head for the nearest animal shelter and go find some "lost soul". For the nominal fees charged; I can guarantee you that you'll get one of the best companions -and the best protectors- money can buy.

If you happen to be in West Louisiana or East Texas; get ahold of Cowgirl Tink. She'll be happy to hook you up. But you better be serious!
 
i wish i had the money to buy enough fenced in land where i could empty the local pounds and let the animals roam free, and of course have enough money to feed said animals. the job i do now though, i cant have any animals as they are not allowed on the dorms where i live.
 
The world is a cruel place. It is how it was set up only we never got used to it. I watched animal planet where this male grizzley killed a sow and ate her cubs. I could not believe it. Nature is cruel and so are we.

I love my gals to death (two Standard Poodles, sisters from the same litter). I send away to Germany to get Canidae dog food because it is the best dry dog food on earth for dogs. they have health insurance, go to the salon every 3 months, and have even been to the doggie dentist here in the NL. I too am heart-broken when I see the neglect of companion animals. In Italy and Spain, people get puppies for Christmas only to abandon them on the side of the freeway in August because it is too inconvenient or expensive to arrange for care during the annual vacation. The cycle repeats itself every Christmas with a new puppy. Here in the NL, people dump their cats and dogs at the pounds, claiming these are strays. When the pounds are full, it has been documented that they simply take the dog to the forest and tie them to a tree and then go on vacation. I get overwhelmed when I think about it but all I can do is vow to do my best to take care of my own. My dogs go on vacation with us wherever we go, except when we go back to the US. They have been to Tuscany with us and have seen Florence, Montepulcano, Montalcino, Sienna, and are frequent visitors to Milan and the Italian alps. When I go back to the US, I don't stash them in a kennel. Instead, I have somebody come and house sit. This way, the gals' daily lives are not too disrupted.

As for me, I have a pet I really cannot stand, a screaching, psychotic parrot that bites for no reason whatosever. I have had her for almost 20 years. I really hate her but she has a huge cage that I clean every day and provide with fresh food and water daily. There are special parrot parks that you can dump your bird at but they are housed in battery cages and her quality of life would be diminished. So I grit my teeth and vow to do my best vis a vi this bird. I made a committment to her when I got her and although I regret my decision to get her, I stick by it.
 
This is going to sound messed up, but I often tell my wife that if I was driving and could swerve left to avoid a human, or right to avoid a dog - I would have a hard time choosing.

I'm guilting of picking up strays any time I see them. I found my dog, Cooper, at my work (busy intersection). I could tell he was at least 1/2 pitt, and my wife and I had already decided that we would avoid certain breeds. I brought him to a no-kill shelter in my town, but in the few hours that I had him, I already liked him and could tell that he was a great dog. I convinced my wife to go to the shelter the following day to "take a look". We adopted him back from the shelter :) I've never had a better, smarter dog. Mutts rule :O)
 

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jerry S said:
As for me, I have a pet I really cannot stand, a screaching, psychotic parrot that bites for no reason whatosever. I have had her for almost 20 years. I really hate her but she has a huge cage that I clean every day and provide with fresh food and water daily. There are special parrot parks that you can dump your bird at but they are housed in battery cages and her quality of life would be diminished. So I grit my teeth and vow to do my best vis a vi this bird. I made a committment to her when I got her and although I regret my decision to get her, I stick by it.
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meet appollo,

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He used to belong to my brother-in-law..............one evening we get a call from him, he says do you want this bird???? I'm getting ready to put a bullet into it's head!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pick him up RIGHT NOW, because he won't be alive tomorrow...............

He had been keeping the poor guy in a back bedroom all by himself 24 hours a day for months..............You have to realize that a parrot can actually go insane, just like a person, if they do not have campanionship........

Everyone thinks that parrots are SOooooooooooo cute, until they realize how much attention they crave..............

Anyway, he has been with us for about 4 years....

Cowgirl, please keep up the cause, the world needs people like you.

I have a friend who volunteers at the local humane shelter. He takes home dogs that had been mistreated by their owners to a point that they are non-adoptable in their current temperment. He tries to change their demeanor so that htey can be placed somewhere...........Some he wins and some he loses....
 
Every time we visit a shelter or there's an adoption fair going on at the pet shop, it's really hard not to take them all. But we take in what we can and give them good lives.

And really most of our cats were probably candidates for euthanazia. Romeo had a serious biting problem. He was actually adopted out once, but they brought him back because he was so mean. Now it takes a lot to get even a half-hearted bite out of him. Toonces is super shy and was FeLV+ when a rescue group saved her from euthanzia. She's since tested negative so it was probably just a false positive which means if the rescue group didn't take her, she would have been put down for no reason. Emily is seriously bi-polar and not many people would put up with her mood swings (especially not the loony lady who got there the same time we did to adopt her - we started filling out the paperwork first, though). Ghost (actually a stray, not adopted from a shelter) has tested as a slight positive for FIV (he's tested positive, then negative, then positive again so we're not sure what's going on) so he would have been put down if a shelter had gotten him. Tennessee was incredibly sick and only about 5 or 6 weeks old when we got her. We only had her for a little over a year, but she wouldn't have lasted more than a few weeks with most other people. And Scout was FeLV+ (that shelter didn't test) and she had been adopted out once but brought back because she was "too wild" :rolleyes: .

Heck, even some of my fish are rescues. I have a tank full of minnows that were in absolutely horrile shape and a couple of gouramis that were about to get flushed.

I wish I could volunteer regularly at the local shelter, but I don't really have the time and it's too far away (if I lived in the same town, I'd be there 2 - 3 times a week). So instead, we'll occasionally buy big bags of dog & cat food and litter to donate. And I do a lot of crocheting & knitting. I keep all the scraps of yarn leftover from afghans and buy partial skeins of yarn really cheap at the salvation army to make blankets out of. Right now, I have about 20 of them that I need to run over there some time.

Eventually, after we move, we'd also like to foster for a local animal shelter or rescue group. We thought about actually starting our own rescue group, but it just takes too much money, so fostering would be the next best thing.

-Chelle
 
I'm with Chelle on this, but being in the Army (and in korea) makes it quite difficult to do much volunteer work. I get the sense that I will be really busy in ft sill.

And StangDreamin': Tell Matt that Kura has adopted him. I don't think I'll be able to take her with me as was originally planned. And say hello to the rest of the furry ones too.
 
My two dogs- (they were 4 months old in this picture- they are now a year)

They are cousins- the black one is Bailey, a toy poodle, the white one is Buster, a toy poodle/****zu mix-

(Bailey is 4 days older then Buster)

Two good friends of ours also bought puppies from the same litter as Bailey-

The week my wife and I moved into our first house, we went and got a couple of dogs-

Dogs really are like children- I agree 300%
 

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