Quite honestly it sounds like you need to get your head out of your arse. Being profane and whining about your problems is just immature.
At what point do you take responsibilty and realise that it's not the car fault that it broke. Seems incredibly stupid to run it without a working fan, then rip on it after running the interstate, then to tear it down without trying to see where it was leaking in the beginning... Even if you had to pull the upper you could pressurise the radiator to see where it leaked from. Dude, you are pegging the idiot meter, sorry, just had to rant a little after reading this thread...
If you're nearly broke just leave it parked and get something that runs until you have the funds to fix this right. If it overheated you may have done something bad to the bottom end. The contamination on the #2 plug has been building for a while. It may also be electrically related. Did you disconnect the 10 pin connectors? Did coolant spray on everything. It's hard to help without being there so you need to step back and think about what would cause your symptoms and troubleshoot it from there. And if anything throw your electric fan in the garbage where it belongs and put the factory stuff back on. Also reset the FPR to 45psi no vacuum and see if it helps. How does it drive? Does it buck or carry on? Does it idle smoothly? Or is it just weak under WOT? Answer these questions and you may get some better help.
Jamie