I hate to bump an old thread but i am sure others are curious about this...
I recently purchased the FRDN/pc-pod2. It's made by the same manufacturer as the FRDN-AUX unit above but works like the Ipod interface in the video. I installed it this weekend and it works great (I dont have the flashing 1/2 glitch either). The basic stereo controls work without touching the Ipod/phone and it charges them as well. I managed to find it from a vendor online for $80 new shipped to my door. The install was pretty easy as well. So anyone who might be looking for something like this without swapping headunits, check it out