I have limited myself to taking a wrench to the car once a month (although the main reason is due to working so much lately) but even then I hear, "all you ever do is work on that car", "I wish you were as interested in me as you are your car" etc..... I believe in family time and keeping everything in moderation but geezzzzz. She told me the other day that, "most guys grow out of the car phase around 19." I quickly responded by saying, "who the hell has money to build a car at 19?" She is driving me nuts and I need some good ideas guys.