Well here's my plans:
tonight I'm gonna put my new balancer on, 19lb injectors, and my pro-m that i know is good. Then I'll try adjusting the idle and see if I can get it set. Then I'll drive it easy and see how it runs. If need be, I will put my afpr back on and bump up the fuel pressure so the injectors can somewhat keep up with my fuel demands. Then I'll at least know how my MAF is, and if I can get another stock filament that is still good, then I'll put my C&L back on with my 30's and see what happens then. A friend who was helping me try and figure out what the problem is, told me that I really need to drive it some to let the valves seat properly, and the springs to break in, and it will probably run a little better after that. So if it's driveable, then I will take it out for a little bit.
EDIT: oh and brandon, i should be in austin tomorrow with my g/f, so if I need it, i can meet you somewhere to pick it up, thanks man!