It's pretty simple really,..There is only one non-OD transmission that won't be a trade off in durability over efficiency loss through internal drag and weight.
A C-4 can be built to withstand your power levels. Over the way more heavier and larger C-6, a C-4 has been proven be the faster transmission when doing side by side comparisons to it's sluggish, much heavier brother. It just has to be modified accordingly to withstand the abuse.
But,....w. a 3.73 rear gear,...I'll bet that before you experience very many miles w/o the benefit of a 4th-5th gear,..you'll be sick of the revs. How does 60 MPH @ 3000 RPM sound to you on the interstate?
Between the AODe, and the newer, more robust 4R70w you can get the necessary outboard controller to control (and modify) the shifting of one of those transmissions. Granted,...they are every bit as heavy as a C-6 (or more) but the 4th gear and converter L/U capabilities will be a welcome thing when you can put the car in the same interstate scenario and only see 2400 RPM, only at 70 MPH instead of 60..