How do I get in these situations? I have a good female friend of 23+ years. We have been friends, dated off and on, been married to other people, lived in the same place sometimes, and different places sometimes. We have never had a falling out, our relationship over the years has pretty much been mutual. She called tonight and wants me to move 8 hours away to where she lives and start up a life together. Im currently married, she isnt, but has a longtime BF. Whats up with that? Why call me out of the blue, we havent had a relationship (sleeping together) for about 8 years, although we talk and have visited during that time. Im also good friends with her entire family, so I drop by whenever Im in town. I dont get it.
