Ran around the country block yesterday. Really nice to get her out but the to do list grows. It rides like

. It puts off extreme heat. Trans pops out of 2nd. Brakes are perplexing. Exhaust scrapes the crown in some roads and all dips in the road. But man was it nice to finally drive her.
Real exhaust is first on the to do list. That doesn't fix the ride though. It is so harsh. It would be brutal for any trip. I have new kyb shocks all around but otherwise original v6 suspension. I've taken 160+ lbs off the front axle so I should be under the weight of the v6. The ride height is perfect. The ride itself is horrendous. The control arms are still on the to do list. It doesn't pop or klunk. Bushings are dry rotted but everything was tight. I replaced inner and out tie rod ends. None of my other II's have been this harsh. Do traction bars kill the ride quality? Frame ties make it stiffer but shouldn't destroy the ride. Correct?
She puts out some heat. I have the same headers and junk mufflers as before the engine rebuild. It's the same engine setup I ran in two other II's. One for 10+ years. Except the T5, engine rebuild, electric fan and new heads in a different body. So completely different but the same. lol.
So far I've driven 10 miles and melted the speedo cable, spark plug boots, clutch cable. The factory sound deadening on the floor under the gas pedal was smoky and gelatinous. The trans wire harness grommet was melting. Luckily I don't have carpet yet. Base timing is about 14 degrees. Engine temp never gets above 190 driving. I just installed the Accell ceramic boot plug wires but it's rainy so no test drive yet. I will get some heat wrap for the headers but am surprised by the amount of heat this combination has. I deleted the mechanical fan. The electric fan doesn''t come on until engine temp hits 190 but the floor was hot after driving and not just sitting. The speedo stoped working while doing 35 so air flow alone isn't the solution.
The T5 was $300. It pops out on decel all the time and on accel occasionally. I can hold it in 2nd on accel till it catches but holding the shifter on decel results in grinding. I will pull it again sometime but hopefully it lasts for a while.
All new brakes. 11" brake kit with calipers and rotors, Ranger drums, pads, shoes, lines, booster and master cylinder. On a previous test drive I had issues with the brakes grabbing so I made the push rod too short on purpose for now. Pedal is very low and the brakes still hang. After driving the 10 miles it stopped at the stop sign by itself. I just pushed the clutch in and she stopped. Rears were smoking once I got home. Today I ran the rear adjuster all the way in and drove another 10 mile lap. Rears were cool but the fronts are still dragging and very hot. It rolls fine when cold but even light driving for 10 miles it hangs. The pedal is so low I can't lock up the brakes but it still hangs. The only previously existing part is the proportioning valve. Can it cause these symptoms?
Probably the ghost of Henry pissed I used GM calipers. lol
Thanks again for any advice and reading my ramblings.