Here's the deal. I was dating this girl for over a year, then things kinda got old pretty much, and we broke up. Well we didnt talk for weeks, then one day she told a teacher (a good friend of hers) about me and a buddy doing something bad. Well it got back to me, and I bitched her out about it hardcore after class one day. Well she came to my next class, got me out, and was crying, telling me that she didnt say it...ect. Well obviously i really hurt her feelings and after that we started talking to each other again. Well one thing led to another, and we started hanging out again. I started liking her again, and i'm sure she liked me too.
In comes my buddy. We used to be really close, but we kinda moved seperate ways (he's into music and a bunch of *** **** no offence) and i'm into cars, so we kinda dont talk much anymore. Last semester i had a class with my ex, him, and a ton of my other friends. This semester, they're all still in that class (newspaper) but i had to drop it, and take a required for my diploma. This buddy is also BEST friends with my ex's older brother, who is also a big ***. Anyways, he's always at their house, and since my ex really doesnt have anything to do she usually chills with her brother and my friend. For example they go see movies together and eat...stuff like that. Well i was always kinda suspicious of my buddy trying to move in on my ex because he's desperate, and would do something like that, they kinda have similar intrests ect.
So this weekend i had more than 1 person come up to me and tell me about time they have seen my ex and my buddy getting a little TOO friendly, like my friend putting his arm around her in the hall, in the class that they are in together, he always picks her for his group, tells her jokes, gets her to laugh, and evidently is all over her. Now i made it a point to find out that these things were MORE than just casual friendly gestures. So now i'm really mad about the whole thing, especially my buddy MAYBE trying to move in on my ex who i still like. I have not talked to her about it yet, i mentioned it the other day and she acted like she didnt know what i was talking about, and said that nothing like that happens, but an eyewittness in the class says different, so do others.
So the question is...how do i handle this problem? I know my ex still likes me, and it is possible she has a crush on my buddy. IF they are dating, seeing each other as more than friends, then hell will rain down upon my buddy. He is the obvious weaker one out of me and him, and i would have no trouble handling him. I know i have no room to be mad because we're not together, and i have hung out with a couple girls, but nothing major. What really makes me mad is that its my buddy. I have a bad temper, and i fear that if i see them doing something like this, i'm going to do something bad. I need to get it straightened out, but i dont really know how going about doing it.
In comes my buddy. We used to be really close, but we kinda moved seperate ways (he's into music and a bunch of *** **** no offence) and i'm into cars, so we kinda dont talk much anymore. Last semester i had a class with my ex, him, and a ton of my other friends. This semester, they're all still in that class (newspaper) but i had to drop it, and take a required for my diploma. This buddy is also BEST friends with my ex's older brother, who is also a big ***. Anyways, he's always at their house, and since my ex really doesnt have anything to do she usually chills with her brother and my friend. For example they go see movies together and eat...stuff like that. Well i was always kinda suspicious of my buddy trying to move in on my ex because he's desperate, and would do something like that, they kinda have similar intrests ect.
So this weekend i had more than 1 person come up to me and tell me about time they have seen my ex and my buddy getting a little TOO friendly, like my friend putting his arm around her in the hall, in the class that they are in together, he always picks her for his group, tells her jokes, gets her to laugh, and evidently is all over her. Now i made it a point to find out that these things were MORE than just casual friendly gestures. So now i'm really mad about the whole thing, especially my buddy MAYBE trying to move in on my ex who i still like. I have not talked to her about it yet, i mentioned it the other day and she acted like she didnt know what i was talking about, and said that nothing like that happens, but an eyewittness in the class says different, so do others.
So the question is...how do i handle this problem? I know my ex still likes me, and it is possible she has a crush on my buddy. IF they are dating, seeing each other as more than friends, then hell will rain down upon my buddy. He is the obvious weaker one out of me and him, and i would have no trouble handling him. I know i have no room to be mad because we're not together, and i have hung out with a couple girls, but nothing major. What really makes me mad is that its my buddy. I have a bad temper, and i fear that if i see them doing something like this, i'm going to do something bad. I need to get it straightened out, but i dont really know how going about doing it.
