Hey boss, I'm an enlisted aviator (Aerial Gunner) USAF, AFSOC, on MH-53M Pave Lows. I would worry about the degree first. You could even use the Associates, join the Army and get your degree while in. We have pilots who were ***s (Former Army Guys) who excell in the USAF flying community. You'll never make O-6 (colonel) due to Big Blue polotics, but, gotta try. Most of our ***s were H-1, H-47, H-64 pilots who did just this. And, you'll be getting flight experience while going thru school. If you're worried about the front lines, nothing in the flying business is safe. Trust me. Every time you strap that hunk of steel, rubber and fuel around your waist, you might not make it home. You gotta do what YOU wanna do, not what mommy and daddy want. Unless they're millionaries (heh heh). Life is too short to wish you would have done something, but never did. I am still kicking myself for not going to flight school (US Army), and I fly with people all the time that I know I could out fly. That, and the quality of life for aviators and officers is wayyyy higher than the rest of the military. As far as your folks saying the military is a waste of time...well, I've been "hacking the mission" since 1991. I honestly feel that my time has NOT been a waste at all. I wouldnt trade ANY of it for anything, (even the whole Getting-Shot-Down over Fallujah-Bit), or the (Crashing a helo in West Iraq episode). I've got 700+ days in the Iraq, Afghanistan AOR since 9/11. I would even go so far as to say that if I were to ever write a book about my time in the SOF community (and USAF), you could get an entertaining movie out of the whole deal. Feel free to get ahold of me for any questions. GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! (School First!!!!)