TO TEST FOR PAINT FAILURE:
1. take a piece of making tape, and lay it over the affected areas.
A. it peels the paint off--you have a paint failure
B. it does nothing--you may NOT have a paint failure
2. take it to the car wash and use the pressure washer right up next the the paint chips. be careful, if it is a really good one, it could also dent your car, but i doubt the car wash has that good of a sprayer....
A. the paint flakes off like the shell of a hard boiled egg--you have a paint failure
B. the paint adheres to the car, and not more flaking--you may NOT have a paint failure.
if this does not peel the paint off, i would say in my professional opinion that you dont have a problem, just bad luck.
if it does peel the paint off, take it back to the same dealer and show him the huge bare spot where you paint used to be, he will warranty it. (dont tell him how you got it to peel.)
the manager said that the shop he uses sucks. GO TO ANOTHER SHOP. dont go to a shop that someone openly tell you SUCKS. find another dealership to go to.