Need help. I'm kinda depressed!

I completely agree with all the people that are saying to move on. I hate to say it, but it IS a game, and whether or not you like it, you gotta play it if you wanna get anywhere in life.

Women want what they can't have, and right now, she knows you're sitting there waiting for her. To show up with a new attitude of "ah well, who cares" will leave her wondering what you have that she's missing out on, and will start to act in ways that you want her to

If, for some god foresaken reason, it doesn't work like it does 98% of the time, and things don't work out, then you've just saved yourself future hardships, and you can start railing other girls.

The friend zone is dangerous....getting too far into it will result in you hearing stories about other people she has feelings for, and that won't help your emotions out very well at all

all this has already been said, but i just figured i would reiterate it since it worked for me, and I'm still with this girl after 2 1/2 years


Thanks and I think I will definately take your advise because your girl is :nice: :hail2: :jaw:
 
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My advice - never, ever, under any circumstances, get involved with someone from work. It never ends well. In fact, it never ends, because you see her everyday.

I had an internship between freshman and sophomore year of college and started chatting up a girl on my floor. My boss at the time sat me down and gave me that advice, and also, employers hate when their employees date because it gums up the works. It sucks, but your job is more important then some broad, even if she has "talent."

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I completely agree with all the people that are saying to move on. I hate to say it, but it IS a game, and whether or not you like it, you gotta play it if you wanna get anywhere in life.

Women want what they can't have, and right now, she knows you're sitting there waiting for her. To show up with a new attitude of "ah well, who cares" will leave her wondering what you have that she's missing out on, and will start to act in ways that you want her to

If, for some god foresaken reason, it doesn't work like it does 98% of the time, and things don't work out, then you've just saved yourself future hardships, and you can start railing other girls.

The friend zone is dangerous....getting too far into it will result in you hearing stories about other people she has feelings for, and that won't help your emotions out very well at all

all this has already been said, but i just figured i would reiterate it since it worked for me, and I'm still with this girl after 2 1/2 years

+100000000

Man that is so true. When I first meet a girl, I pretend that I'm really into her. Then the next time we meet, I treat her like ****. Don't talk to her, ect. pretend I don't even know her. Usually a couple weeks go by, then BAM I usually get a text or an IM from the chick. Then I go in for the kill. Works everytime. Once your with the chick, don't be :taco: whipped either. You gotta get it straight with them, THEY are lucky to be with you, because bitches are sleezy and will move onto the next guy in a flash (well most of them). But of course, it's always good to show some affection now and then.

With that said, this chick is not interested in you anymore because you're showing too much interest in her. Just leave her alone for a while, we'll see if she comes back.
 
Honestly bro, all this might be good advice. But i find that females just want to be pursued. She threw out all the invitations for you to pursue her and you didnt bite, and now she is probably wanting you to pursue her. I would just be honest with the girl. Is it more important for you to feel like a "pimp/player" and be pursued, or for you to find someone that you can share life experiences with?
 
Thanks guys for all the help. I'm going to just try to avoid her as much as possible and move on. Everything happens for a reason, I have seen it firsthand. It will be difficult because im at the age where im not too young to settle and im not really old enough to be looking for a soulmate.

Good news is that im getting alot of attention from another really cool girl that just broke up with her boyfriend a couple months ago and is extemely horny :D