Lot of myths about speed density.
You can add nearly every mod in the world so long as you don't do something that lowers engine vacuum. I ran a ported explorer intake, 65mm throttle body and gt40p heads with 1.7 roller rockers with a stock HO cam and speed density, and she ran like a raped ape.
However, people are right in this case. Not because of the heads, but rather that cam. Speed density MUST see a vacuum signal of 17+ and with that f cam, you'll never see 17 pounds. Hell, I only see 10-11 pounds with my current b cam.
The computer things you've got your foot halfway down into the throttle at idle because it's not seeing full vacuum to the map. Because it's not getting full vacuum, the computer is saying, more fuel, more fuel, let her rip!!!!
You HAVE to convert to mass air at this point, or go back to a speed density compliant cam.