ive seen 4.10's and many other gears at swap meets for 25 bucks. sometimes as stated above, the owner of them will give you the specs on the backlash and pinion depth and such so you can try to set them up.
honestly, ive used new gears, and they whined, and ive used old gears and they whined. but ive used new gears that didnt whine, and used used gears that didnt whine.
i feel it is in they way you set them up.
usually when they whine, its your pinion not being tight enough, or your too shallow.
always use a new crush sleve and make sure you crushed it. their a femal dog.
with frp gears, i have used the stock shims, and not had a problem, no whinein or nothing. but i would atleast check your measurments. its alot better to see it not right, instead of hear it not right when you pull out of the drive.