It sounds to me like your EEC had learned out a lot of fuel in the adapatation memory (idle range). This adapted fuel trim is probably also used with the cold start fuel (I don't know the Ford strategy in detail, but this math is fairly common in the industry). This is probably why it ran fine from the shop and got screwy when the EEC was power-failed. Also, engines are much more forgiving when they're warm compared to cold. A cold start is one of the most dynamic conditions in engine operation. Hot restarts also use a reduced amount of fuel since more of the gas atomizes instead of getting lost to cold ports during a cold start. So it might have only ran well on the first day because it didn’t completely cool down.
In additon, WOT AFR is only loosely reated to idle AFR. If he did actually modify your pressure, he might have solved a WOT fueling issue and screwed up idle fuel flow. So much so that you're getting WAY too much fuel to start.
Well I pulled my plugs and they were soaked with fuel. I bought a back up set and installed them and got the car to fire. It only idled for about 30 sec then died again. Just like you suggested, I think my fuel pressure is somehow way to high. I'm going to get a afpr and set it to 40 with vac off and see what happens. I'll only be able to pick that up on Sat. though so I'll let you know how it goes. I really, really appreciate the help guys. I'm going to send the tuner a bill for that afpr. That Jacka--