If the coolant is leaking via the intake manifold coolant crossover, it's possible for it to be sucked into the intake valves. From there it's easy to see how this could get into the oil.
Of course it's possible that large amount of coolant was setting on top of the pistons (you did ensure that no coolant made it down the intake right?) during the 1st startup. If so, this could cause hydro-locking. Obviously, hydro-locking can (and does) break pistons, rods, values and most anything else it wants to.
When ever unknown amounts of coolant (or any liquid) have made it into the combustion chamber, it's a good idea to turn the motor over by hand a before restarting the first time.
Have you located the source of the intake leak? A compression test can help you determine if the motor has been hurt.
Sorry to hear about that.