where to begin....sometime in the later part of march to the first part of april my wife was having woman problems, so she went to the doctor and they told her she had an STD called "chlamydia" (for those of you who don't know what it is, its a type of bacterial infection that causes one to become steril or infertility... here's a page on it http://www.cdc.gov/std/chlamydia/STDFact-Chlamydia.htm#WhatIs
well anyway, she claimed i was the only person she was with so i must of cheated on her...after trying to let her know i never cheated on her, she still didn't believe me...whatever happened to trust and loyalty??? so her doctor prescribed medicine for both of us to take, and since i trusted her and thought we maybe i got it before we met when i was in college( i had myself tested about 1 year before we had got together and i was clean)....well lets just say that around the time she started sleeping in the living room( i also noticed she wasn't wearing her wedding ring and when i asked her about it she told me she took it off because she didn't want to loose it in the doctors office and ended up loosing it anyways, so i asked her if she wanted to go and get another ring she told me "no" and that it was alright) ...well 2 weeks before she moved out she got a new laptop computer and radio for her car.....well since we both have our own $ to spend on whatever we want to after everything else is paid for (utilities, rent, food, etc) so i didn't give it much thought....then 1 week before she moved out she told me she was going to stay the week with her mom...i was like ok...then the first part of may, i went and took the kids to school and went to work early in the morning like usual...when i got home i realized things were missing....she took our 3 dogs(1 we had for 6-1/2 yrs, 1 we had for 5-1/2yrs, and the other for 1-1/2yrs, her cat, her turtles, and clothes...she also stripped our wedding album and left all the pics with me and my family in them and left me a dear john letter stating she didn't love me anymore and that she had been trying to make it work for the past 3 years.....after 2 months of her being gone and no communication (she didn't even by the kids b-day gifts, 2 were in may and 1 was in june) i met someone...well my lease was up today(the last of july) and i couldn't afford to pay the rent by myself so the girl i'm dating asked if we wanted to move in, i told her ok but that i was uncomfortable and would give it a few months...well my wife found out and decided to email me and make me feel bad for moving on and that after 6-1/2 yrs i could move on easily and that she's the one i cheated on her with to give her the STD...3 days after that email my future ex-brother-n-law stopped by and we talked(apparently she had split up him and his ex-girlfriend)....so i guess to get even he told me not to get back with becky that she had been seeing an older married black guy behind my back since last november....she had went out for a girl's night out downtown with some friend's of her's and they were suppose to get a couple of hotel rooms so they wouldn't drive after drinking....that night she stayed the night in a hotel room with this guyand told her brother nothing happened.. ok first off, how do you stay in a hotel room with someone of the opposite sex and nothing happen??? also if your married why stay in a hotel room with another guy period....i was pissed...here she was accusing me of cheating and she was the one seeing someone....well apparently this new laptop computer and car radio, he bought her....hell he's was staying with her within 2 weeks of her moving out....i was told the week that she was suppose to stay with her mom she was actually staying with him....so after i heard all this i had a friend of mine to check into it to see if what my brother-n-law told me was true...and it was...i found out where my wife moved to and where this guy works and his name....i'm so tempted to go and have a little chat with this guy, but everyone tells me not to and to think of my foster kids...i thought i was ready to move on, but after finding out all that stuff about my future ex-wife i find i have no appetite, hardly sleep, and think about her constantly...but i'm managing to get on with it....ohhh and i talked to her for the first time last week in 3 months...of course she denies all about the guy and claimed he was just a friend and married and that maybe someday they would date.... she told me she still doesn't love me...i asked her about the ring(whether she lost it or took it off for the sake of this guy)...she told me she did loose it and then found it and then sold it...i was like WTF...that was a $5000 ring... so thats pretty much up to date...ohh and that in may she took off with the foster pay for the kids and i had to use my savings to pay for everything so i didn't have $$ to get my car up and running...after dhs fixed the problem so it wouldn't happen again i got back pay and used 1 of the checks to refund my savings $$ so now i'm waiting for my new heads to come in... well i hope i didn't bother ya'll to much with my sad sob story...i just felt the need to vent....jimmy
well anyway, she claimed i was the only person she was with so i must of cheated on her...after trying to let her know i never cheated on her, she still didn't believe me...whatever happened to trust and loyalty??? so her doctor prescribed medicine for both of us to take, and since i trusted her and thought we maybe i got it before we met when i was in college( i had myself tested about 1 year before we had got together and i was clean)....well lets just say that around the time she started sleeping in the living room( i also noticed she wasn't wearing her wedding ring and when i asked her about it she told me she took it off because she didn't want to loose it in the doctors office and ended up loosing it anyways, so i asked her if she wanted to go and get another ring she told me "no" and that it was alright) ...well 2 weeks before she moved out she got a new laptop computer and radio for her car.....well since we both have our own $ to spend on whatever we want to after everything else is paid for (utilities, rent, food, etc) so i didn't give it much thought....then 1 week before she moved out she told me she was going to stay the week with her mom...i was like ok...then the first part of may, i went and took the kids to school and went to work early in the morning like usual...when i got home i realized things were missing....she took our 3 dogs(1 we had for 6-1/2 yrs, 1 we had for 5-1/2yrs, and the other for 1-1/2yrs, her cat, her turtles, and clothes...she also stripped our wedding album and left all the pics with me and my family in them and left me a dear john letter stating she didn't love me anymore and that she had been trying to make it work for the past 3 years.....after 2 months of her being gone and no communication (she didn't even by the kids b-day gifts, 2 were in may and 1 was in june) i met someone...well my lease was up today(the last of july) and i couldn't afford to pay the rent by myself so the girl i'm dating asked if we wanted to move in, i told her ok but that i was uncomfortable and would give it a few months...well my wife found out and decided to email me and make me feel bad for moving on and that after 6-1/2 yrs i could move on easily and that she's the one i cheated on her with to give her the STD...3 days after that email my future ex-brother-n-law stopped by and we talked(apparently she had split up him and his ex-girlfriend)....so i guess to get even he told me not to get back with becky that she had been seeing an older married black guy behind my back since last november....she had went out for a girl's night out downtown with some friend's of her's and they were suppose to get a couple of hotel rooms so they wouldn't drive after drinking....that night she stayed the night in a hotel room with this guyand told her brother nothing happened.. ok first off, how do you stay in a hotel room with someone of the opposite sex and nothing happen??? also if your married why stay in a hotel room with another guy period....i was pissed...here she was accusing me of cheating and she was the one seeing someone....well apparently this new laptop computer and car radio, he bought her....hell he's was staying with her within 2 weeks of her moving out....i was told the week that she was suppose to stay with her mom she was actually staying with him....so after i heard all this i had a friend of mine to check into it to see if what my brother-n-law told me was true...and it was...i found out where my wife moved to and where this guy works and his name....i'm so tempted to go and have a little chat with this guy, but everyone tells me not to and to think of my foster kids...i thought i was ready to move on, but after finding out all that stuff about my future ex-wife i find i have no appetite, hardly sleep, and think about her constantly...but i'm managing to get on with it....ohhh and i talked to her for the first time last week in 3 months...of course she denies all about the guy and claimed he was just a friend and married and that maybe someday they would date.... she told me she still doesn't love me...i asked her about the ring(whether she lost it or took it off for the sake of this guy)...she told me she did loose it and then found it and then sold it...i was like WTF...that was a $5000 ring... so thats pretty much up to date...ohh and that in may she took off with the foster pay for the kids and i had to use my savings to pay for everything so i didn't have $$ to get my car up and running...after dhs fixed the problem so it wouldn't happen again i got back pay and used 1 of the checks to refund my savings $$ so now i'm waiting for my new heads to come in... well i hope i didn't bother ya'll to much with my sad sob story...i just felt the need to vent....jimmy