what is this part called..

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That would be the gas tank tube insertion hole rubber thingy.

I have no damn clue man, i would just call and ask them for the grommet that goes around the filler neck
 
filler neck condom

The Ford manual points to that and says "Mounting surface", but labels the whole neck assembly #9034 if that might end up helping you any. I'd just look for a Mustang being parted out or hit up a junkyard and grab that piece and/or neck. good luck