When you were talking about friends hitting the door on objects, I once punched my friend right in the face when he did it. When I pulled into the spot I said, "This is tight, watch you door for me." He intentionally swung it open fast just to joke, and lost his grip and slammed it into the car next to us. I instantly had fire coming out of my ears and hit him. The funny thing is, he looked like a little kid that was in trouble, and hes twice my size! I was able to buff off the other car's paint off, and it didnt even dent my car, so all is good. I think youre making the right move just holding on to the car, and learning to be as patient as possible with the daily risks!