the prestone kit is only like $5 dude!
As far as jaming a hose in the top.. as long as the hose is not a high pressure hose froma a steam cleaner or such, the average garden hose line should be fine and not hurt anything. The radiator system actually sees a good deal of pressure anyways.
the thing about the prestone flusher is that it Back flushes the system. Remember teh thermostat is gong to be closed, so this allows the water to come in from the backside and get thru the whole system.
You are making this far to difficullt. just do it.
or take it to some place like Jiffy lube and get a radiator exchange done.