Last year I was mid-divorce... the wife decided she wanted out and was done. Well, she moved out, filed, etc. and after about 4-5 months away she called and was truly upset and admitted she'd made a mistake and wanted to work it out... At that point I had nothing left to lose so sure, let's try it! Man... it's been a really good year so far, and we are doing great. There will always be ups and downs but just don't make any decisions while emotional and you'll be ok. If it comes down to divorce and it's really over then ok, you'll be just fine man! Dot your I's and cross your T's, stay off social media (except to tell us about your car) and don't ever say anything negative about her in front of or around your children.