I think either way the headlights will look good, your call on that. But in my opinion, you should get smoked fogs, because I think they will lay in better with the surrounds being black, versus a black surround with a big white light in there. Just makes the fog lights a subtle touch and not too much. I did the same to the front of my car, black surrounds and smoked fogs.
Also the s281 spoiler would look great on your car.