Depends on what the "meet" would consist of. If it was just a meeting to hang out and chat for a day or whatever, then I'd probably go anywhere in Michigan or the states that border it.
The ultimate would be to get a drag strip, some kind of autocross setup, and a decent car show with a bunch of categories (best looking engine, interior, exterior, stereo, lighting, cleanest stock car, best 'vert, best coupe, best N/A engine, best F/I engine, etc. etc.) THAT would be AWESOME. Just run the tracks for fun or maybe a friendly competition. Have a nice car show w/voting done by the members themselves or something. Have a parts swap and maybe a tech area if people want advice/help for working on their car. Have a big cookout at the end.
yeah...
But that'd be WAY too much to organize. Still, a nice cruise-in with maybe 30-40 members would be pretty sweet. I'd drive a good 10 hours or so for something like that. If a hundred people or more would go, then I'd drive prolly twice that far (are there 100 members with 94/95 cars on stangnet? lol). Hell, if it were in Florida I'd just make a vacation out of it.